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How do Polish mothers blog? About competition, writing about nothing and the price of your own opinion


"There are many interesting competitive-based phenomena between blogging moms. From killing an opponent with how perfect a child is, who already on the second day of his life slept all night, had no colic, loved to bathe, everything ate beautifully and basically laughed around the clock. Because of how well we cope with the child, that we have time to paint our nails, do full makeup, that the belly is flat as a board, that the husband returning after work with singing on his lips immediately takes over the responsibilities of the child ALWAYS! After, of course, possession. Billions of blankets of three hundred for each, organic cotton bedding for another pair of stakes, a car for a child with such goodies that you need to kneel and pray before you stop. "- Anita also known as Sroka, chemist, cosmetic tester.

Sosrodzice.pl: Blogging among young mothers is very fashionable today ...

Anita: In general, it seems to me that blogging is in itself fashionable.

Why?

AND: Running a blog is above all a break from the routine of everyday life, suddenly you need to turn the brain to other turns.

The appearance of a child changes a lot and, above all, significantly shortens the list of things that can be done. Everyone tries to compensate for such "deficiencies" in their own way, and one of such ways is to run a blog.

At first, I didn't know what I wanted to do with my blog, time has obviously verified a lot and influenced what is currently on the blog.
In addition, running a blog about "some" topic gives you the feeling of being in a group that thinks, feels and experiences the same as we do.

I met a lot of really great girls as a bonus. We are scattered all over Poland and abroad, and yet it turns out that we have many common themes, not only those of "children".

Rather pleasure or profitable form?

AND: In my case, pleasure (smile - red), although sometimes quite stressful and annoying. For others I don't know ... I can only assume.

I suppose many bloggers don't know what they are doing. Anyway, I also did.

You sit at the computer, you want to do something, you know what, but not quite. He thinks about the name, comes up with some miracles, checks availability, then thinks again whether it's ok and click is a blog.

I am aware that many blogs are created for commercial purposes. Legends about what money earn cupboards or culinary blogs, or even the most famous blogger of Rzeczpospolita Kominek act on the imagination ... However, setting up a blog is not everything. It is not entirely predictable whether it will work.

And if you fail, you write a blog about "Maryna's ass," as you put it in one of your notes?

AND: Hahaha if there are such blogs, then there are probably their recipients. Someone probably needs them, someone reads them, someone comments on them. It is possible that I am unfair or so mannered that I would like to read only blogs written with passion.

It is possible that these blogs, which I think they write about this ass, are not at all, maybe as it is now beautifully said I am not their target. Or maybe it is just as I think - the vision of big cash flowing through blogs tempts with "easy" earnings, so it's worth doing something and a monster is created for sponsors and the audience. If someone fools into it, just congratulate the creator.

Which is more important: is the mere fact of sharing information from everyday life sufficient, or is it rather about making a given blog "fashionable"?

AND: Everything probably depends on the purpose of the blog. One is enough for someone to read and leave a comment. Others must have confirmation of the purposefulness of their writing by statistics, the famous UU (i.e. unique users), the number of observers etc ... Anyway, most fall into such traps.

I set up a fan page on Facebook myself, although I don't know why. It is also true that at some point the parenting blog's formula begins to run out. Writing about a child, about what he does, what he can do, how many times the diaper has changed, etc. ... is no longer enough and I have a lot of interest in my blog. And I honestly admit that I like it the most (smile - editor's note), such a surprise that someone knows something, likes something else, does amazing things that you don't even know about.

Yes, but sometimes it is just the opposite ... You wrote: "Suddenly, a cool (in my opinion) blog transforms into a properly political sweet-messing mush in which God forbid not curse even the word ass (because advertisers don't like it), nothing is criticized , because it is potential advertisers and general that brags (this is probably to show that even the worst guilty can be beautifully described). For this you have a complete fan over these blog owners, what a worse they are ready to make a sponsored entry - "because they are spoiling the market."

AND: Fame and cash tempt many, free gadgets, murmurs, goodies, button patterns (smile - note editorial office).

Seriously, it's probably a matter of luck, whether you will be left yourself and earning on whether to earn, you will have to make a total return of your views. Again, ask yourself why we are writing a blog.

These complete changes in blogs are killing me. I'm starting to wonder if the blog before the change was real or after the change? I leave these blogs, I do not read - I care about the liver, because as you know stress does not serve this body ...

Too many places "rose-blue" and too few places that are remembered ... critical, brilliant, really interesting ...

Not everyone can be "some", not everyone has a desire to do so. Many people do not believe that their opinion may have any value. Not everyone can come to terms with criticism, expressions of dislike, not to mention offensive comments with profanity every other word.

If you criticize something or someone, there will always be one that tells you that you do it out of envy, jealousy, because of your own pettiness etc. ... No matter how much you want to be honest and right. Someone will always accuse you of acting in your favor because ... you like him, you benefit from it or you are just stupid.

Not everyone can get over it. I myself have many unpublished posts written under the influence of the moment and nerves that did not see the world of the day, because it would probably cause a war, and this is not what I care about.

Would war be bad even in a just cause?

AND: Emotions are not a good advisor, they often get three to three under their influence, and then you regret it.
In the world of mothers (though sure not only), he often goes for the proverbial knives, the discussions turn into ugly mouths, at the end everyone feels affected by your fast. At the same time, it adds nothing - nothing changes.
I just want to make people aware that they are being studded. I don't have time to translate what the author meant when writing a post.
Besides, maybe my point of view is not right at all? Maybe I misread someone's intentions?

Blogging moms compete with each other?

AND: Well! There are many interesting phenomena based on competition between blogging mothers.

From killing an opponent with how perfect a child is, who already on the second day of his life slept all night, had no colic, loved to bathe, everything ate beautifully and basically laughed around the clock. Because of how well we cope with the child, that we have time to paint our nails, do full makeup, that the belly is flat as a board, that the husband returning after work with singing on his lips immediately takes over the responsibilities of the child ALWAYS!
After, of course, possession. Billions of blankets of three hundred for each, organic cotton bedding for another pair of stakes, a car for a child with such goodies that before you stop, you have to kneel and pray.